I don’t use this blog for meditating – I do that on “Trundling
through life” but I’ve been having a few thoughts provoked by the reaction to
the dyed bathrobe.
I’m a post-war baby, born 1951. My mother even had a ration book for me for
the first few years of my life but I have no recollection of that. However, although I was unaware of it at the
time, it was the period of post war austerity.
My parents were married in 1940 and so Mother’s housekeeping skills were
developed through the war and the ideas of make-do-and-mend were the norm for
my childhood. Paper was saved “for
salvage” - we didn’t call it recycling in those days. Christmas presents were unwrapped very
carefully so the paper could be ironed and re-used. Father grew vegetables. We ate seasonally. Most of my clothes were hand-me-downs or home-made. We had patchwork on our beds not as an
expression of artistic ability but as a matter of economic necessity. Oddments were used because nothing was thrown
away until it was beyond repair – shabby chic is definitely a twenty first
century concept!
Move forward sixty years and the ideas which I was brought
up with don’t look so mean, they look like common sense but most people under forty
have to learn those attitudes deliberately.
For me dyeing the bathrobe was actually a very modern thing because Mother
would have used it no matter how grotty it looked. (Incidentally I’ve never been brave enough to
dye anything I would wear in public!)
What I’m trying to say is that I am very lucky. I was brought up learning skills and
attitudes which I am able to dredge up from my memory but they are there to be
dredged. I take my hat off to those who
are younger than me who are learning them for the first time,
I salute you!